Episode 299

When our children are having big emotions or behaviors, it’s natural to want those big feelings and behaviors to stop so that there is more fighting, no more disrespectful attitudes, no more drama. Unfortunately, there’s one problem: We can’t control how our kids feel or how they behave. And when we try, we just make the situation worse (and we feel worse). Fortunately, there is an alternative that leads to a better outcome – AND doesn’t require us to give in to them. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why our need to control others leaves us exhausted
• How to address big feelings without trying to change other people
• A simple shift that will reduce resentment and lead to more peace and influence with our children

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Your Parenting Long Game Episode 298: How to be a Powerful Positive Influence When Your Child Is Upset or Not Listening 
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 297: Why Our Kids With Big Emotions Need Us to Have Firm Boundaries
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 207: Why Your Child Really Doesn’t Want to Control You (Or Anyone Else)
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 242: Why You Don’t Have to (and Shouldn’t) Try to Convince Your Child to be OK with Your Limits