Reducing Sibling Fighting


Your kids seem to get along sometimes.

But during other times, they

  • argue about small (and big) issues
  • compete over who got more, who needs more, who is better
  • say disrespectful things to and about each other
  • do whatever they can to get on each other’s nerves

And your attempt to help them work through issues only make things worse.

But it doesn’t have to be this way!


Reducing Sibling Fighting Relief Plan

In 20 minutes, I will help you:

  • Understand the real reasons for the negativity between your children 
  • Foster a relationship in which they WANT to be nice to each other, even when you’re not around
  • Create an action plan so that you no longer have to play judge and jury when they’re arguing
  • Reduce the stress related to their arguments and negativity

What You Get For $24.99

  • 20-minute video lesson: You’ll learn why kids argue, compete, and disrespect each other so much and what you can do to foster a better relationship so that you don’t have to figure out whose side to take
  • Interactive guide: This resource will help you apply the tips you learn to YOUR situation 
  • Examples: You’re not just learning a theory in these lessons…you’re learning what you can actually DO to see positive change
  • Template for your plan: You can use this template to fill out your plan
  • “Say This, Not That” suggestions: The words you should use to ensure your success!

Frequently Asked Questions

These lessons were created for parents of children ages 2-12 years old, but many of the tips apply to parents of adolescents as well.

The lesson helps explain WHY your children fight and how to meet each child’s individual needs so that they are not “resolving” their issues by fighting with each other.

The Rachel Bailey Parenting Academy Club is a monthly subscription service ($35/month) that offers Live Q&A sessions with me for parents who complete these Relief Plans. Membership also includes community support, access to parenting resources, a Private Facebook Group where I keep open office hours to answer questions, email updates and other benefits. Click here to learn more about Rachel Bailey’s Parenting Academy

It will take about 20 minutes to go through the course and build your plan. You will involve your child in making the plan, so the time spent may be shorter or longer depending on your child’s age and level of engagement.

Once you teach your children to recognize and address their needs, you will be able to foster peace in the family that lasts.


Not Getting Sucked into Kids’ Big Emotions Relief Plan helps you identify strategies to remain in control of your emotions no matter what is happening around you so that you can reduce the negative interactions with your kids (and others!)

Managing Parent Stress and Anxiety Relief Plan helps you change what you are doing that is keeping you stuck in a cycle of negativity…and helps you feel more in control by giving you clear steps for handling situations that feel overwhelming

Handling Your Kids’ Schoolwork With Fewer Power Struggles Relief Plan helps you foster internal motivation in your children and reduce the stress surrounding schoolwork

Helping Kids Transition Off of Screens Relief Plan helps you motivate your children to get off of their device without your nagging… and helps reduce the stress surrounding screen time

Still have questions about the Relief Plan? We’d love to hear from you!

About Rachel

I’m Rachel Bailey. For over a decade, I’ve helped hundreds of parents bring out the best in their children. In addition to my master’s degree in clinical psychology, I have been an ADHD coach, in-home mentor (helping to improve family dynamics), therapist, and teacher of positive parenting techniques. And I’m a mom.

Like many of you, I tried “traditional” strategies with my kids…yelling, threatening, even the “positive” ones like rewards and praise. But none of those strategies worked in the long run and they didn’t feel good for me or my kids.

So I learned how to switch from “band-aid parenting” (using strategies that don’t stick after a while) to “long-game parenting,” which lead to results that lasted and made me feel more confident and in control.  Now I teach other families how to do the same… and how to enjoy interacting with their kids again. 

And I can teach you too. 

As Featured In


  • Your kids are able to work through their disagreements without being mean to each other
  • Fewer (loud and disruptive) arguments and a more positive energy in your family
  • Having a clear plan for helping your kids get along better to begin with

Are you ready to reduce sibling fighting?