Most children lie at some point. Of course any parent is likely to feel angry and concerned when a child lies.
Unfortunately, when our responses come from this place of anger and concern, we usually respond in a way that doesn’t address the issue effectively.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why our usual attempts at reducing lying tend to backfire
- 3 reasons children lie (it’s not just to avoid punishment)
- How to respond to lies when they happen
- What you can do to reduce the likelihood of the behavior in the future
Mentioned in this episode:
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EPISODE SUMMARY + ACTION TO TAKE
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