Episode 373
Many of our kids, when they do something wrong, will immediately point the finger: “He started it” or “It wasn’t my fault.” In those moments, it can easily look like they’re being selfish or refusing to own their behavior. But what appears to be deflection is often driven by something different happening underneath the surface.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
• What blaming is actually a sign of
• How trying to correct this behavior can unintentionally chip away at a child’s belief in themselves
• Why helping children build tolerance for uncomfortable feelings allows them to take responsibility more naturally
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MENTIONED IN OR RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
FREE: Does your child have a narrow zone of tolerance?
Episode 249: When We Foster Resilience at the Expense of Self-Esteem
Episode 323: When Children Melt Down When Things Don’t Go Their Way
Episode 345: Responding to Snarky Responses Like “This Is Stupid”
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