Episode 221
It can be so frustrating when we do something fun for our children — take them somewhere, play a game with them — and then when we ask them to do what they have to do — brush their teeth, go to bed — they don’t listen! Shouldn’t doing things for our kids make it more likely that they’ll do what we ask?
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why “deposits” don’t always improve behavior
- Why giving them what they want may even make behavior worse
- What your children really need in those situations in order to behave better
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Your Parenting Long Game Episode 9: Give Kids What They Need, Not What They Want
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 75: Micro-Deposits: Improve Your Connection Even When You Don’t Have Much Time (Or Your Child is Resistant)
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 8: When You Can’t Get Your Kids to Clean (or Do Other “Boring” Things)
Your Parenting Long Game Episode 59: Why Children Don’t “Choose” to Act Negatively
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