Feel more in control of your parenting.
Learn long-term solutions for raising responsible, resilient children
(even when you’ve tried so many strategies… and nothing seems to last)
You want to raise children who
…act responsibly, even when they don’t feel like it.
…do the right thing, even when no one is there to remind them.
…react respectfully and appropriately, even when they are frustrated or disappointed (or just don’t get their way).
…can solve challenges that they face, even if they initially don’t know all the answers.
But that’s not what’s happening.
You’ve read the books. You’ve read the blogs.
You’ve tried the things. But nothing’s working…at least not for long.
And the fact that you can’t seem to figure out how to make things different is affecting you
— your marriage, your friendships, and even how you feel about yourself.
You’re just so tired of the power struggles… of the meltdowns… of the negotiations.
You want joy and lightness, but everything seems so difficult… and so heavy.
I can help.
I’m Rachel Bailey. For over a decade, I’ve helped hundreds of parents bring out the best in their children. In addition to my master’s degree in clinical psychology, I have been an ADHD coach, in-home mentor (helping to improve family dynamics), therapist, and teacher of positive parenting techniques.
I’m also a mom who wants my kids to be able to do what they’re supposed to do (even when they don’t want to!), handle challenges they’re going to face, and feel confident about themselves…. but raising them in this way does not come naturally to me.
Like you, I tried “traditional” strategies — yelling, threatening, even the “positive” ones like rewards and praise. But none of those strategies worked in the long run, and they didn’t feel good for me or my kids. So I learned how to switch from “band-aid parenting” (using strategies that don’t stick after a while) to “long-game parenting,” which lead to results that lasted and made me feel more confident and in control. And at this point, I’ve taught hundreds and hundreds of families how to do the same… how to feel relief and enjoy their kids again.
And I can teach you too.
Want some long-term solutions for common behavior issues?
Motivate More Responsible Behavior
Handle Your Child’s Big Emotions
Improve Your Child’s Self-Esteem
Stay More Calm as a Parent
I’m guessing this isn’t your first time searching for parenting solutions.
Maybe it’s time to try something different.
You don’t have to go down the Google rabbit hole, searching for solutions and piecing together your own
fragmented parenting plan. (Are you tired of feeling all over the place?)
You don’t have to feel like you’re making parenting choices alone, without confidence that your decisions are the right ones.
You don’t have to feel guilty that you can’t find the time or energy to be the parent you want to be.
I can help.
Finally… you can relax.
I’ve helped over a thousand parents work feel more in control of their ability to motivate, support, and make decisions about their children with CONFIDENCE. And these parents know how to get results that last.
How this happens may look different from person to person, but the results are the same: better behavior and attitudes in kids + less stress and overwhelm in parents… which leads to a more enjoyable family life for EVERYONE.
What Parents Have Said About Working With Me
I really have appreciated all the tips! I do believe it’s helped me to interact with my children in a more calm and respectful way, even though I used to feel like I’d never have the resources to do that!
– Mom of 3
Every other time I have tried to work on my parenting in the past there has always been this lurking thought in the back of my mind “yeah, but am I really going to be able to implement this?” But I thought I should have all that figured out by now and so I was reluctant to raise my hand and say “um, I can’t really handle all my stuff.” But now I feel like I have a road map to get there. So thank you for perceiving the need and making some tools!
– Mom of 2
I want to thank you! I just had one of the best days in a very long time with my son. It was unbelievable! I could actually cry right now because he was so adorable today. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I am excited to talk to you again!
– Mom of 2